Connecting with an Audience
The first time I had to preach a homily on a Sunday morning, I thought I was going to puke. I was an ordained Catholic priest who had been through all the mandatory public speaking courses my master’s degree required. I had studied the scriptures; I had consulted various homiletic services that point out interesting stuff about the scriptures -- but looking out on the congregation that first Sunday morning, I felt woefully underprepared. And after I presented the product of all my slavish work, the verdict was clear: Quite frankly, I sucked.
I realized quickly no matter how much exegetical crap I threw out at the congregation, they still looked bored as hell. Somehow, I don’t remember exactly why, I shared my struggles with my shoot straight from the hip Grandma Margie. She boiled it down best and gave me great advice – “We’ve heard it all before. Tell us a good story!”
That’s when I realized that if I was going to be a communicator, I had to think in terms of what makes a good story. I had to think about what takeaway I wanted to leave with an audience – did I want them uplifted or challenged? Was I appealing to their hearts and their heads?
I thought about favorite movies and books – how did they open? With a conflict! – Something big happens and it propels the story forward. My homilies would do the same. I learned I had to keep the story moving, keeping the conflict central and pushing the homily through acts. I decided since movies and plays were generally five acts, my homilies would be the same. And I learned the more authentically I could connect with my own feelings about the central conflict, I could engage the congregation at a gut level as well.
Now that I write books and articles, I think about the lessons I learned as a preacher. You need to take take your reader on a journey of emotion and discovery. They are your partner as you reveal the mysteries of your story. If you are to move them in any way, tell them a good story.
Guest post by Alan Oakes. Alan Oakes is a Graduation Coach and Counselor at a
. He is
a featured writer for Green Building and Design magazine and a
contributor to other magazines including Texas Architect and New
American Luxury. In the past, he served as Associate Pastor of Saint
Austin Catholic Church and Director of Catholic Campus Ministry at
Alan holds a Bachelor of Science degree from the William Allen White School of Journalism at the
University of Kansas and a Master of Arts degree from the
Washington Theological Union in Washington,
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